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And The Tawse, Oh, My
Yes, that's belts and spoons and The Tawse, oh, my... Meet The Tawse. The Tawse is about 15 inches long, thick and somewhat stiff. And you can see that it's split at the end, then each part of it is split again. Before this week, I had only used it very briefly, just long enough … Continue reading And The Tawse, Oh, My
More on the Spoon
When I start to write about Sir, and the things we do, I hit this pocket of resistance. Internally, that is. I can’t find the words, I can’t quite capture the feeling. Where do I start? We had planned this time for weeks. I have very little privacy so live time on video is precious. … Continue reading More on the Spoon
Meet the Spoon. My Spoon
A friend of mine recently wrote a post about a wooden spoon. She called it the “ouchie little monster.” It looked - well, you know how this work. It was intriguing. It called to me. And it was scary. It didn’t take long for my Sir to let me know that I was going to … Continue reading Meet the Spoon. My Spoon
In the Corner
"You know what you need to do," he said. She was standing in the corner, bottom on display. "But I don't want to stand in the corner," she said. She felt like stamping her foot, but knew that wouldn't be a good idea. It wasn't the first time she had protested the injustice of the … Continue reading In the Corner
Word of the Year 2026
I don’t do resolutions. I barely do goals. I do set intentions, although I don’t have any specific ones for 2026 yet. And for several years, I’ve picked a word of the year that goes with my intentions. This year, I haven’t had a clue what my word was going to be. Last year it … Continue reading Word of the Year 2026
A Tawse?
I'm not planning to keep youall posted on every little thing that happens in my life, not even the exciting little things. But after my last post, my friend Nora commented, sharing from her own experience a couple of ways I might improve the effectiveness of my self-spanking. Nora advised me that standing straight when … Continue reading A Tawse?
Me and The Belt
You may already know that the belt is my favorite spanking tool. So you won’t be surprised that I bought a belt because a Dom I’ve been talking to thought it would be good for me to use it on myself. It’s a simple leather belt, but already buttery soft, and I was pleased that … Continue reading Me and The Belt
Christmas Music Two
Just about every year I share some of my favorite non-traditional Christmas music. If you’ve been around a while, you have probably seen all of these before, but it’s tradition for me to share them and you might want to hear them again. If you’re new, I hope you enjoy them. The Christians and the … Continue reading Christmas Music Two
Winter Solstice – 2025
Winter Solstice, as you probably know, marks the turning of the seasons, the longest night that leads us to the beginning of shorter nights and more light. It’s my favorite of the Pagan celebrations because I love the returning light. Although, as I’ve been reminded lately, the light is always there, whether we can see … Continue reading Winter Solstice – 2025
Seduced
Seduced by a shiny new car and a sense of freedom. I feel shackled by my life sometimes, and not in a good way. Not velvet cuffs or Shibari. Shackled by duty and obligation and trying to do the right thing for the collective good. A friend of mine suggested that I begin to think … Continue reading Seduced
Olivia 